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what it takes to be loved !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We have been talking lot about girls these days, it looks like i am going to write down about them here also. it is very unusual for me to write about girls, but its i think the right time to write about that, as lots of things happening outside that is making me more and more curious about girls :) its one of my friend and me who were talking about true love today, and his opinion was that " true love is one in which one only think about the other" his point was even if one has to ruin his life for that! I may have agreed to the point , I was arguing that it is true only when you think like that even if you were "Shah rukh Khan" or "Sachin Tendulkar" and only when i could have believed that, but when you don't have anything to loose but nothing, these words are useless! My point is that one who has something to sacrifice should talk about it, others just making us!! so we were talking about love, girl, sacrifice and all that heavy stuff! things that can never have any conclusion. Another incident that i would like to add to this is one of my friend is saying that he is in true love with some girl! and he indeed looks like very eager to get her! i don't know what that is all for, for this my point is that why we always want others to love us as well if we love them! let them do what they want and you do what you want! if you want to love someone go love, but why this that she should also love you. this is just my point of view! may be it looks odd to someone, when we say that love is blind, i believe that it is 100% true, infact it also makes people blind! i have experienced this with my surrounding!

someone asked me few days back if i will ever fell in love? I think that there can't be any other silly question than this one! who said i am not in love! I am in love! and love to be in love! why we always think that expressing love is love or showing affection is love, i think that love is like a feeling that comes and goes! sometimes i love someone for some reason and sometime i loves other for some other reason, why it is so that you can't love more than one people,in fact i would like to love thousands of people for thousands of different reasons! as far as i know my self, it is hard for me to show somebody that i how much i love, indeed it become easy for me to hate someone whom i love! hating is loving these are too extremes that sometimes work in place of each other! for people around me here is a secret, that if you want to know something out of me start talking about that and notice my face and notice what i say, what i say many times possible that exactly opposite to what i mean! and my face just tell every thing! i really can't hide my expressions of face!

concluding this post, here is something i wrote i think is not right " Life is all about changing yourself according to your love ones"
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Anonymous said…
Yes...very true..most of the times I do exactly opposite of what I feel. Feeling don't necessarily coincide with what I end up doing.

Have u ever heard this..."loving someone is easy...letting someone love you on the other hand is very difficult"...and I guess this is what we are fighting against...:)

What makes love...love is one's ability to ignore his/her bad points...and thats why love is blind...but thats not so easy!!

Nice post anyways...

~Random girl..
June 23, 2008 at 10:57 AM
Unknown said…
the post is about making something out of nothing, thousands of such feelings comes and goes i may have write hundreds of posts for them but then i think this one post resembles all of them
June 23, 2008 at 11:05 AM
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